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How To Talk To Women
Talking to women is so easy that I can sum it up in a few words.
Talk to every woman you meet as a friend. Guys seem to find it so
hard to talk to women, because they feel they have to conquer them
and seduce them.
Forget everything you heard about trying to seduce women so fast.
Meet them, talk to them about anything and everything. Become their
friend and you will own the world.
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Never, and I mean never brag to a woman about yourself. |
Don't try
to hand her a lot of B.S. to try to make an impression. Women hate a
guy who brags. Let her talk about herself. Become a good listener and you will
win her over.
Has this ever happened to you?
You walk up to a girl, manage to
introduce yourself and you dry up. You stand there in front of this
total stranger and can't think of a thing to say.
There is a way to prepare yourself so you won't be tongue tied
when you are with a girl. The way to do this is to prepare a format,
a sequence of conversational techniques. You can do this by doing
the following:
1: Get the girl talking. Women love to talk if you can get
her talking about things that interest her by asking questions and
taking an interest. The best questions to ask are:
a: "What work do you do?" She will tell you about
her duties and co-workers. She could talk about this for hours.
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You
and she could then talk about each other's work and really get into
a good conversation. |
b: "What school did you go to?" You can follow up
on this by asking her what courses she took, what kind of activities
she engaged in, etc. You can even ask her about some of her
teachers.
c: "What kind of music do you like?" You can really
get into it about music, singers and records.
You can really talk about anything and everything. Talk about
movies, television (your favorite shows), radio, politics, current
events, etc.
Remember, women love a good listener and if you get her talking,
she will love you for listening and taking and interest in her
ideas.
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Some of the things not to talk about are sex (not at first),
past girlfriends or religion (not when you first meet her). |
Women love a sense of humor, so always be prepared to tell some
humorous stories or funny jokes. Just do not engage her in very dull
or uninteresting talk. For example, do not talk about science or the
sex life of rocks. You will be surprised how easy it is to talk to a
girl after some practice.
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