The First 60 Seconds

What you say or do in the first 60 seconds will determine many times whether or not a woman will respond to you.

All you have to do is keep the woman's unconscious attention focused directly on you (and off everyone else) in a positive manner for a total of one minute from the time you meet her.

This really works, you must project something positive and appealing. Come across very humorous and very honest and you will do very well. Some of the best approaches in the first 60 seconds are the following.

1: Ask for help. This is one of the best. You can go up to a woman and ask her just about anything. Women love to be helpful. You can ask her questions about directions, cooking, grocery shopping, and even ask her to help you pick out a gift for your mother.

2: An honest approach. Just go up to her and tell her she's pretty and that you would like to meet her. Honesty is the best policy.

3: One of the best approaches is the humorous approach. Just go up to a girl a smile and start laughing and joking about anything, a funny movie or book, etc. This worked for me with a good looking girl named Linda. Let me tell you about Linda. You can use the same technique.

I went to a singles dance one Friday night by myself and was hoping to meet some girls. I got there about eight thirty and the first thing I did was order a drink and stand against the wall watching the girls.

It's amazing how many of us guys make a career of standing up against the wall. I noticed Linda about two hours later. She was sitting at a table with a girl I knew, just a friend of mine.

I thought she must be a snob because she didn't even smile when she looked up at me. Finally the other girl waved me over and asked me to sit down for a second. I, being my friendly self, sat down but didn't know what to say.

I sat there for nearly 10 minutes not saying a word. I was aware of Linda the whole time because she smelled so good and was so pretty. She was a brunette and had the most beautiful eyes that I had ever seen. She also had long beautiful hair and I just love long hair.

Jan, the other girl I knew, was asked to dance and I was left sitting alone with Linda. I was sitting in stunned silence when I decided to say something. I blurted out, "I wonder if the wall fell down yet, I was holding it up so long."

I looked over at the wall and ran over to pretend to hold it up again.

Before they left that night, I became bold (.... excuse the pun....) and asked for Linda's phone number. She told me that she just moved and didn't have a phone, but could she have mine.

I gave her my phone number but I never expected her to call because I felt she was politely turning me down by not giving me her phone number. To my shock, she called me a few days later. We made a date and went out the following week.

We had a hell of a good time. Linda and I went together for about six months and it was one of the best periods of my life. I asked Linda one time why she even talked to me that night and why she called me.

She told me something that I'd remember for a long time and it helped me meet dozens of pretty girls after that.

Just because I said something humorous, I appealed to her.

I know I could never appeal to her on my looks alone. Linda was about 10 years younger than me and extremely sexy. Guys everywhere used to stare at her when I took her out.

Just open your mouth. Very good advice. Say something and hold her interest for at least 60 seconds. You will have 50% of the battle won. My cousin David discovered a very unique method of meeting women and he shared it with me.

David: "I discovered this quite by accident. I worked for a toy manufacturer. We were trying to sell a new line of stuffed animals that talked. I had an appointment out of town one day to demonstrate the bear.

I had a room at the Holiday Inn and was testing the bear in my room and had trouble getting it to work. I decided I would be more relaxed if I had a drink. So I went down to the bar with the teddy bear.

I sat at a corner table trying to figure out why the teddy bear wouldn't talk. I was nearly frantic when I heard a soft voice asking me about what I had in my hands and how cute it was. I looked up and saw one of the prettiest girls I had ever seen.

She sat down and asked to see the bear. I handed her the bear and she had it talking in a minute.

I made friends with a lot of them and they said they would go out with me next time I was in town. I bring unusual stuffed animals anytime I go to a bar or restaurant now. Wayne and I met twelve girls one night in a restaurant we brought some stuffed dogs in and set them on the table.

Remember, girl like a guy who is different or unique. Try bringing a cute stuffed animal in a bar or restaurant some night and see how many girls come over and start a conversation with you.

You can certainly hold their interest for 60 seconds. You can even tell them it's a gift for your little niece or nephew. This is one of the best methods for meeting a woman and holding her interest that I know of.