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How To Be The Most Interesting Person In The World
I remember when I would talk to a woman, I was terrified that she
wouldn't find me interesting. I always thought that other guys had some kind
of special power, because they could hold a conversation and keep the woman
interested for hours.
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I just didn't even know what to TALK
about, let alone try to make it sound interesting. |
I learned something from a very hip book that I read called
"Conversations With God
(CWG)" by Neale Donald Walsch. Okay, I can
hear you groaning, yes I know this is a course on how to meet women, and you
might think that this book is not relevant. Well actually it is, because it
talks in DETAIL about love and sex. I highly recommend it.
So anyway, where was I... Oh yes, the CWG book. Here's what I learned
that absolutely blew my mind, and instantly made sense. In fact, as soon as
you read it, I bet you're mind is going to just open right up. Are you
ready? Well here it is.
If you want to have more of anything in your life, you must...
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... be the source of it for another! |
Wait, did you get that? Did it sink in? Go back and read it again, I'm
serious. Okay, so how does this apply to talking to women? Well, let me ask
you something. Would you prefer to feel like you're around an interesting
person, or would you rather that people tell you how interesting YOU are?
What if you could have both?
Let me explain.
Have you ever heard the saying, "The most interesting person is the
the most interested"? Well it applies here. How would you conversations
with people be different, if at all, if you focused 100% of your attention
not only on being interested in what that person is saying, but also letting
them KNOW that you find them interesting?
Since the feeling of being "interesting" is flowing FROM you to
the other person, you are being the source, and therefore you are both
experiencing it on a deep level. Do you see how this can transform your
entire life almost overnight?!
The next time you're talking to someone, anyone... I don't care who it
is, the cashier at the store, the mall employee, the waitress, whoever... do
them a favor and just talk to them for a couple minutes, and say the
following to them:
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"Hey, it's nice to talk to you. I
don't meet too many kind people these days, how about
you?" |
Okay, now say that to 10 people, and I want you to notice the FEELING
that comes through your body. What you will discover is that an overwhelming
feeling of kindness will flow through you and into the other person. For
those few moments, you will actually be connected to them on an energetic
level.
This is something you have to experience to understand. You cannot really
"get it" by reading. Please go out and do this, and then email
me with your discoveries.
By the way, I want to point out one more thing. This is an exercise in
being the source, and not in getting phone numbers. Please do this with an
agenda to NOT get a phone number, but just to make the person feel really
good, by being the source of that good feeling.
This is not a pick-up technique, this is an exercise to show you how to
really develop your conversation skills.
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