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A New Way Of Thinking
First of all, I want to thank you for joining my
site. I think
that the best way to start is to tell you a little bit about myself
and explain why you should listen to me. After all, you should
have faith and confidence in my methods.
I want to make you a true ladies man, an envy of all other guys
who will beg you for your secrets of attracting women. This will
happen to you if you follow all my advice.
Nearly a dozen years ago I was divorced, thrown into the singles
world and totally unprepared for living the single life.
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I was 30
years old at the time and had no idea on how to meet and date
beautiful girls. |
For nearly five years I visited the singles bars nearly every
week, sometimes three and four times a week. I never met a girl in a
bar. I tried, I really tried. I went up to hundreds of girls during
that time and was rejected by nearly all of them.
A few of them would dance with me, but that's about all. None
would give me their phone number or want to date me. I was
completely unhappy and miserable and quite willing to admit defeat.
Someone told me about personal ads and how they helped him to
meet women. I decided to try. I gave up the bar scene and devoted
100% to the personals.
For five years I never went to
a bar and stayed with personal ads. But after a period of time, I
missed the dancing and music of the bar scene. I knew that many very
good looking girls went to the singles bars.
I decided to try again, after all I met many girls through
personals and I should have more confidence that would help me in
the singles bars.
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I would try the following Friday night. |
That Friday night I went to the Holiday Inn, a place I knew would
be filled with sexy looking girls. I was right! There were all kinds
of pretty women all over the place.
But a strange thing took place. My feet froze to the floor. I
could not gather enough courage to even approach one girl. I was a
complete washout in a bar.
I stayed nearly all night, holding up the
wall and staring at all the beautiful women that were there. I went
home completely miserable that night.
The next night...
I decided to try again the next night. This time I would ask some
of the girls to dance, one or two had to say yes. After a couple of
drinks I got a little braver and asked ten girls to dance that
night. Every one of them said no.
I was shocked. I went into the rest room and looked in the
mirror. I saw a 42 year old balding man with a pot belly.
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The women
must have laughed at me when I asked them to dance. |
I felt worse than I had ever felt in my entire life and went home
dejected and unhappy.
After a few days I stopped feeling sorry for myself and knew
there had to be a way for average looking guys to meet good looking
girls in bars. I was determined to find out.
I owed it to myself and also the many guys who wrote to me
pleading to tell them how to meet the beauties they saw weekly in
the singles bars.
I spent the next nine months interviewing both men
and women and how they met each other in bars. I spent the first six
months talking to guys and the most unusual methods they used to
meet girls in bars.
I picked the guys who I saw week after week with
the most beautiful girls. They were very helpful, I merely told them
I was writing a book and needed their help. I ended up with about
thirty different methods of meeting women.
I then spent the following three months talking to
girls...
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...and finding out which of
the thirty methods would work best in meeting them. |
You would be surprised at how many good looking
girls will talk to a guy when they think he is writing a book on how
to meet them. The girls picked the best methods out of the
thirty that would work with them.
This is what I will tell you in this manual, the
very best methods of meeting girls in the singles bars. There
are two secrets to meeting beautiful women and without them, the
best methods in the world will not work.
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These are: the right
attitude and being unique in your
approach. |
Being unique may draw all kinds of girls to you,
but you must have the proper attitude to hold on to them. These are
so important that I will cover them in detail right now.
Attitude- This is the
most important quality you can possess to be successful with women.
Nothing, and I mean nothing, can compare with a superior attitude.
You can be the best looking guy in the world...
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...but without a good
attitude very few women will end up in your arms. |
Let me tell you how it helped me.
When I first got divorced twelve years ago, I was
a complete washout with women for years. As I told you, I met many
girls through personal ads but only learned how to keep them after
one of the girls I met told me the following:
"Wayne, you're a very nice guy but if you
want to meet and hold onto a lot of women, you have to change your
attitude. Women do not want a guy who is weak and unsure of himself.
They want someone who is strong and self
confident. Be a little hard to get, a little casual and sly but also
be tender and caring.
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Know you can do it,
and you will have hundreds of women." |
Well, from that day on I decided to become and
expert on meeting and dating women. I did and you will benefit from
my know how and experience, because every method or system I learn
about meeting women I will pass on to my readers.
I wrote two manuals on personal ads and am an
expert on meeting women through personal ads. When it came to
singles bars I forgot my own advice and lost my good attitude and
became a washout with women again.
But the combination of being unique and the right
attitude helped me to meet all kinds of girls in bars and it will
help you. There is nothing that will stop you from meeting girls if
you are unique and have the right attitude.
Be Unique - There is not
one female in this world who wants a guy who is average. Whoa!
Wait a second, that need to be repeated...
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There is NOT ONE female
in this world who wants a guy who is average! |
She is always looking for a guy who is different,
her knight in shining armor, her dream man, the man who is unique.
That's why these methods will work, because they
are different and very unique. Any guy can walk up to 100 women and
maybe 1 to 10 will show some interest.
But I want you to be successful with nearly 100%
of the women, and you will nearly approach that when you have the
right attitude and are unique in meeting women.
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From this day forward, you
will eliminate the word average from your life and
substitute the word unique. |
You will become a real ladies man, a man who has
dozens of women at his fingertips. You will never be lonely again.
You must attain the correct attitude and you will
never be without women. No woman seeks the common man. They seek the
man who is different, the man who is unique.
Every one of these methods are unique and
different. That is why they will work. Have faith in me and these
methods and you will succeed.
You will gain a lot of invaluable advice in
dealing with women. You will learn the mistakes most men make with
women that destroy any chance they have of establishing any kind of
relationship.
You will learn how to get women interested in you
and what makes them act the way they do. Have you ever seen a
beautiful woman with a homely guy?
Do you ever wonder why a lot of beautiful women go
for homely guys?
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You will no longer wonder,
you will know. |
After you finish this manual, you will be able to
get practically any woman you want. You will know the secrets of
meeting and dating beautiful women.
Within a few days after reading and studying the
techniques in this manual, you will start being in the company of
some of the most beautiful women in the world.
Not only will you know how to meet them, you will
also learn how to handle them and keep them interested as long as
you want.
You will also learn how to use psychology on
women, a very important tool to win a woman's heart. Well enough,
let's get onto the meat of the subject.
The importance of this website
To illustrate how important the subject of
handling women is, just look at the divorce rate. A study of the
divorce rate states that 50% of marriages fail and within 20 years
or so, it will probably be 75%.
I will state here and now (a lot of women will
love me for this, and a lot of men will hate me for this, but it's
true) but I really feel that when a marriage or relationship fails,
it is the man's fault in over 90% of the cases.
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He does not know how to
handle his wife or girlfriend, he does not know how to make
her happy. |
He takes her for granted and ignores her.
The other day a guy who bought one of my manuals
on meeting women through the personals called me and asked me the
following: He wanted to know why no one would stay interested in
him.
Every woman he met would lose interest in him
after the first or second date. I explained to him a few simple
rules of holding women, (the same rules you will learn) and now he
has no trouble at all.
Another guy wanted to know why all women would
refuse to dance with him when he asked. After I questioned him, I
realized that...
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... he was making a basic
mistake that nearly all men make when they ask a girl
to dance. |
I had calls from hundreds of guys who have had
problems with women. It is so easy to have dozens of women in love
with you and interested in you that you will wonder why you ever had
trouble.
Men make so many mistakes with women and it's sad
to see them unhappy and miserable when there is no reason for it.
Women are a joy to know and a joy to spend time
with, and if guys would only apply a little know how, they could
have all the women they want. You will have all the women you want when you get
through this manual.
It's so easy for someone to tell you that they can
teach you all there is to know about women and how to handle them.
But why should you listen to me?
Who the hell do I think I am that I should
consider myself an expert? Well, let me tell you what I am not. I am
not the kind of guy who always knew how to handle women.
I am not good looking, in fact I am very homely.
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Before I knew how to handle
women, I was a complete failure with all kinds of
women. |
I was the kind of guy who couldn't make out with a
woman even if I paid them a hundred dollars. That was true a few
years ago, but today things are quite different.
In high school I was very shy. I rarely dated
girls and could never muster up the courage to ask a girl for a
date. The few dates that I did have were blind dates arranged by my
friends.
I had a miserable life in high school as far as
girls were concerned. I met my ex-wife quite by accident through a
wrong number I dialed one day on the phone. By some miracle, I got
to know her on the phone and made a date.
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We dated nearly four years
and finally got married. |
That was the biggest mistake I ever made in my
life. I was 22 years only and she was the only girl I ever dated.
If by chance you meet a woman and want to get
married, please take my advice and don't do it unless you have dated
at least a hundred women. Too many guys get married today and all
they dated was a few women.
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How could they know if this
girl is for them unless they see what other women are like? |
We were married for ten years and had three kids.
Many times during those ten years I used to daydream about what a
great lover I could be if only I wasn't tied down to my wife and
kids.
I felt that I had missed a lot by getting married
so young and never having a chance to enjoy being a bachelor. I
believed I could really have a ball if only I was single. Finally,
my chance came.
After ten years of marriage, I was divorced and
suddenly found myself a 32 year old single man. Now I was ready to
live the great single life that I had heard so much about.
I was ready to meet dozens of girls and sleep with
as many as I could.
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I was a virgin when I got
married and wanted to make up for all that I had missed. I was
raring to go. |
A single friend of mine told me about what great
success he had in meeting girls in a certain singles bar. I decided
to go with him the following Friday.
After we got to the bar, I had a few drinks and
was ready to try to pick up some girls. The night I struck out with
every girl I tried to pick up. I approached ten girls that night and
struck out with every one of them.
That was the story of my life for the next seven
years. I wanted to give up on girls completely. I met a guy who told
me about meeting girls through personal ads and decided to try that
method. I had tried meeting girls in bars and failed. This would be
different.
After a few weeks of answering and inserting
personal ads, I came upon a formula for meeting women and it worked.
I even wrote two manuals on meeting women through personals. You
might have one or both of them.
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I had arranged to meet a
dozen women for coffee who I met through the first few ads I
placed. |
I really felt that they would like me and keep
dating me if I wanted because I had sold myself through letters and
phone calls.
But a certain pattern emerged. Out of all the
women I met and dated, not one of them wanted to date me a second
time. I was doing something wrong and had no idea what it was.
I placed more ads and met more women, but the
problem of holding their interest was still there. What could I be
doing wrong? I was more depressed than ever. Here I could meet
girls, but what was the use if they would not date me more than
once?
I decided to try something different the next time
I dated a girl to see if it would change anything.
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Boy was I shocked! One little
detail and the girls were interested in dating me again. |
This little known detail is what I call the
"D" technique and it is dynamite. I will explain it in
detail a little later. I decided to learn everything there was to
know about women and I started by questioning all the women I could.
I talked to nearly a hundred women about what
works with holding their interest with guys. They were very helpful,
especially when they found out I would publish a manual for men on
how to handle women.
They felt that men could use all the help they
could get. They all agreed that the "D" technique
was great and gave me loads of advice that you will learn about in
this manual.
Today when I'm at home, it's by choice. Since I
have some of the most beautiful women in my life now. There is no
more loneliness for me.
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It took me several months to
learn how to handle women, so make sure you expect to spend
some time mastering this. |
But I did learn and what I learned works!
Once I found out what to do, I changed from a lonely and unhappy guy
to a guy who makes out with the kind of gorgeous women most guys can
only dream about.
You will learn the secrets I discovered in
handling beautiful women. And if you follow my advice, within days
you can start meeting and dating some of the best looking girls in
the world.
Since my divorce over 14 years ago, I have
dedicated my life to finding out the best ways for the average guy
to meet and date beautiful women.
I know through bitter experience how heart
breaking it is to watch one pretty girl after another walk through
your life and wish you had the guts and looks to attract them.
I know how it is to go to a dance or a singles bar
and watch all the sexy girls dance or talk to other guys and when
you do get the nerve to approach them, a bitter rejection is your
only answer.
I am going to change all that for you because...
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I have discovered that the
best way to meet beautiful women is to be different
and unique. |
Women do NOT want the dull average guy!
You can meet and date more beautiful women than
the best looking guy in the world if you come across as "different"
than the average man. With the various techniques I describe in this
manual, beautiful women will be yours by the dozens. I guarantee it.
Now let's stop hearing Wayne blow wind and let him
tell you all the secrets of attracting beautiful women.
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