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How to break down a woman's
resistance: Three different techniques
When you first approach a woman, she will usually
build barriers that will make her resist you and any hope you may
have of getting to know her. However, there are certain techniques
that you can use to overcome these barriers. They are the following:
1: The power of touching - Touching
is one of the most powerful techniques of reaching out to others. It
is so powerful that it is one of the very best ways to get close to
a woman. I don't mean touching in a vulgar dirty way, but in a way
that is warm and very intimate.
You can observe the power of touching on
television, when a minister on a healing program touches people who
are sick and they feel that they are healed. Is it real or is the
touch so powerful that they feel they are healed?
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It proves how strong the
power of touching can be. |
Some of the ways touching can be used are offering
her your arm as you walk to the car or to the bar for a drink.
Another nice gesture that would really melt a girl's heart is to
hold her hand while walking. This is a romantic gesture and would
really melt the coldest heart.
2: Smile - When you
approach a woman you would like to meet, always smile. A smile will
do more than you can imagine in trying to meet a woman. A beautiful
woman once told me that a smile from a homely looking man would give
him a better chance than a frown from a handsome man.
So many men today approach a good looking girl
with a frown on their face. How can they expect to get anywhere with
a beautiful woman with a horrible looking frown?
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Try to smile next time you
approach a woman. You'll be surprised at the results. |
3: Use her name - Nothing
establishes mutual trust and admiration more than the sound of ones
own name. Use the girl's name often while you are talking to her.
If you use her name a lot, she will feel more
important and appreciated. Using her name will make you seem like
two old friends instead of two strangers. Try it next time you are
talking to a woman.
Touching, smiling, and the frequent use of a
girl's name will help tear down her barriers and melt the distance
when you first meet her. These suggestions will help you turn
complete strangers into friends and perhaps lovers.
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