The best place in the world to meet women

Now I'm going to tell you the best place to meet dozens and dozens of sexy gorgeous women and how to get many of them attracted to you without saying a word.

There are nearly ten women to every man at these places and your odds are great in meeting the woman of your dreams or becoming a ladies man, as I have, with all kinds of women at your side.

Please listen to me as I show you how I, a nerd without anyone, became a ladies man in a very short period of time. Let's start off with my experiences.

Now hear me out before you pass judgment and come up with all kinds of excuses why it won't happen to you.

Like I said, the women outnumber the men 10 to 1 (only count the men who dance, don't count the guys who hold up the wall drinking and staring but never ask a girl to dance). All you have to do is get up and dance.

I'm talking about dances where top 40 music is played, not ballroom dancing which attracts all older people. Be young whether you're 25 or 55. Fast dancing and slow dancing are easy to do. Anyone can do it.

Crystal Light is a very popular singles dance spot here in Canton, Ohio. They have top 40 bands, and once in a while a 50's band.

Sometimes they just have a disc jockey who plays top 40 music. You can do exactly what I did and meet dozens of beautiful girls, so listen up. When I first went to Crystal Light about 2 years ago, I walked in and was scared stiff.

I was alone and everyone looked so unfriendly and snobbish. There were a lot of beautiful women, but they all looked like snobs. (First mistake I made was to form an impression)

The excuses ranged from "I don't like to dance" to "I'm with someone". One girl even told me that she just got her foot operated on and couldn't dance. I saw her a few minutes later dancing with someone else!

I was really depressed and looked in the mirror and thought it was because I was too old. The dances were held every Friday and Sunday night so I decided to give it a few more chances.

One of the first things I noticed at these dances was that the really pretty girl were getting asked to dance all the time and the unattractive girl, especially the heavy ones, were never asked.

After all, I was there to have a good time and to learn how to dance a little better. I started asking the heavier girls to dance and they almost always accepted. I was having a good time. A strange thing happened.

After about two weeks of dancing with relatively heavy women, a beautiful girl came up to me and asked me to dance on ladies choice. I was shocked.

She told me that she asked me to dance because I seemed like a nice guy who would dance with anyone just to have a good time.

She also told me how to attract a lot of women there.

The secret was...

She said women always want men that other women want. That was the best advice a woman ever gave me. She also told me that women, especially attractive ones, were more prone to agree to a fast dance than a slow one.

So from that night on I always asked women to fast dance first and I danced with some of the most beautiful women there. If a girl dances with you fast first, she is more prone to dance a slow dance with you later.

So many guys want to slow dance, but they don't want to fast dance. Just get up there and move. Today it's more freestyle than anything.

Some guys are so afraid of rejection that they make excuse after excuse so they won't have to ask a girl to dance. Every week I hear the same old excuses from the guys standing in the back watching everyone else have fun.

They range from "There's too many guys here" to "The women all look like snobs." Life is passing these guys by. Are you like this? Rejection is only temporary. If you ask ten girls to dance and only one says yes, so what. Have fun with the one that says yes.

Forget the ones that say no. Remember Babe Ruth? He had the most home runs, but also had the most strike outs. I ask girl after girl to dance.

Many of these women have become my friends and many want to date me. I can have my choice of the many beautiful girls I dance with week after week at the singles dances.

Do not ever hold a grudge against a girl that refuses to dance with you. She has the right to turn you down if she wants. She may be tired or just not in the mood. Girls who have turned me down have turned around and danced with me the following week. I have asked two other guys to give you their views on singles dances.

Jack: "I started going to singles dances about a year ago. I've dated three girls I met at the dances and many others wanted to go out with me, but I'm having too much fun to get serious with anyone.

I dance with at least ten to fifteen girls every night I go to the dances, and I have the time of my life. Those other guys that don't dance don't know what they're missing.

I'm a great guy and a lot of fun. This is the greatest place in the world to meet women. Those losers that stand in the back and just drink and stare at the girls are nuts."

Dick: "When I first came to the singles dances two years ago, I was lonely and depressed. I did the bar scene for a couple of years, but I was tired of all the games and lies. Someone told me about the singles dances.

I heard there were a lot of girls there. I wanted to meet some nice women to date. The first night I went I got turned down ten times. I was really depressed and wanted to give up and never come back when a friend of mine told me what I was doing wrong.

He was the only guy I knew at the dance. And he told me I looked a real sour puss when I approached the girls and asked them to dance.

It seemed to work because the next girl I asked to dance said yes. Her name was Karen, and we had a good time. I danced about ten dances with her and we laughed and joked all the time.

I had a pretty good time that night and learned that a woman likes a guy who is in a good mood and laughs and has a good time. I ask dozens of girls to dance and many times I get turned down, but I just smile when a girl turns me down and walk away. Being turned down is not the end of the world."

I spent a lot of time on this topic because I really believe that singles dances are one of the best places to meet women in the world. You can meet dozens of girls to have a good time with, or you can meet a girl to fall in love with.

Just ask the girls to dance. You don't have to know how to dance. Just get up and do your thing. Watch the teenagers on MTV and pick up a few pointers on fast dancing, and as far as slow dancing...

Personal ads and singles dances are the methods I've used to meet the most women. But there are a lot of other places to meet women as well. Here's a couple more.

The Singles Bars

The singles bar seems to be the number one place that guys TRY to meet women. (notice I said try) It is also the hardest. With these methods I will make it so easy to meet girls in bars that you will wonder why you ever had trouble before.

You will be way ahead of the other guys, because over 90% of guys that frequent a bar are afraid to approach women for fear of getting rejected.

There are literally dozens of girls just waiting to meet guys in a bar, but as I said, he should be a guy who is different and very unique and that will be you.

They know of no other place to go. The pity of it is that so many men use or try to use the common old fashioned way of meeting women.

Here are some of the methods that most men use to meet women in bars and they definitely are the absolute worst ways to try to meet women.

An average guy walks into a bar, has a few drinks and will decide whether or not to approach a girl he finds attractive. He will look around for someone he would like to meet.

Here is where most guys would make their mistake. He will see a good looking girl, take a deep breath, cross his fingers, walk up to her and...

This is the fault of most guys because of their attitude. Your attitude will change when I'm through with you. A poor attitude and a common approach will turn off more girls than an acute case of bad breath.

Here is a good example of a poor approach most guys use. Upon spotting a good looking girl alone in a bar, Mr. Average will stumble up to her and after sitting nearby will blurt out, "Can I buy you a drink?"

Sometimes he will sit down and ask if he can rap with her. Other times he will act like James Bond, real suave, and send a drink by way of the bartender with the message...

What a bunch of hogwash!

All the examples above are all a bunch of bullshit. Why? Because all of them are very common and are used by nearly every guy trying to meet girls.

When a guy offers to buy a girl a drink, she is probably already drinking one. She probably thinks to herself, "Here is some smart aleck guy who wants to buy me a drink for a couple of dollars, because he doesn't have two cents worth of guts."

What he means is...

THAT'S the message that SHE hears. Not a good way to start off.

Next, to ask if you can sit down is an assumption that she is alone and will be for the rest of the night. This also puts her in a very awkward position. She is almost forced to say yes.

She may not think these exact thoughts, but she will feel like a pick up because you made her feel that way. She will feel cheap because most women do not want to be made to feel like their waiting to be picked up by some guy.

To send a message with a drink by way of the bartender is another poor method. If she agrees, she is openly admitting she is looking for a partner.

When one of you goes through the motions of swapping tables, you are making the entire place aware that you have just picked her up. This has a tendency to make her feel somewhat cheap.

She is also placing herself in a very delicate situation. How is she going to escape from you if she does not like you? You are making her feel obligated.

By now, I think you are starting to see my point. In most cases of using the above common methods the odds are that most girls would say, "No, thank you." This is her polite way of saying...

In these approaches you have nothing different to set yourself apart from all the other men in the bar. You have done nothing out of the ordinary and nothing which a dozen other men haven't already tried to do to meet a girl.

Remember what I said about being unique. With the common methods, such as the above, her decision will be based entirely on what you look like.

Unless you look like a Greek God or a movie star, you will have very little chance of meeting girls in bars using the normal and common methods.

Ask yourself on what other point could she possibly make her decision. Now take a look in the mirror.

I can't. Therefore it's mandatory to rely on something other than your looks in order to meet sexy women in the singles bars. You must become appealing to her. You must reverse the normal procedure.

By doing this you will be able to select and attract the really beautiful girls and become truly appealing to them. This is what these methods will do for you.

I want to pound this idea into your mind. To attract women you must reverse the original situation. In the beginning you are attracted to her, and you want to meet her.

This might seem difficult but it is very very easy.

You can accomplish this by arranging her first thoughts of you to be, "He is unique, different, and very interesting." Once you have arranged this, she will be very pleased to meet you and get to know you. That is what these methods will do for you.

Singles bars: Why 97% of men fail to meet girls

Singles Bars are the most difficult place to meet women and nearly 97% of men who try to meet girls in bars fail to do so. Do you know why? It's because they approach them wrong.

Never, and I mean never, go up to a girl and ask to buy her a drink. In fact, never buy a girl a drink unless you are on a date with her. This makes a girl feel obligated to you and most of them will only use you to buy them drinks all night.

Approach them on a friendly level and you will have a much better chance of getting to know them.

You must sell yourself to women and if they become your friend they will see you are a nice guy and may become more than a friend. This is so important.

Go up to them and just say "Hi". That's all. I met a beautiful girl named Lisa in a singles bar and here is how I did it.

I was at the Holiday Inn one night and I saw this beautiful girl sitting at a table with a girlfriend. She had long black hair and was fairly young. I knew the worst thing to do was ask her to dance, because I saw her turn down a bunch of guys.

Now singles dances are different than singles bars. At the singles dances, women go to dance. In a bar you will get turned down ten times more than at a singles dance. I'd rather go to a singles dance, but a lot of guys still go to the bars so I want to tell them how to succeed.

Anyway, back to Lisa. I saw her sitting at a table and was deciding how to meet her. I just decided to go over and say hi. I went over to the table:

"Hi", I said to both of them.

"Hi", they replied back.

"Do you girls like the band?"

"Yes", they both said.

"My name's Wayne, what are your names?"

"My name's Lisa and this is Joyce."

"Nice to meet you."

"Sometimes it's hard to talk because the band is so loud. I like the music and love to dance, but the dance floor is so small in here."

"Yes it is." said Lisa.

I told them it was nice meeting them and left. Very important, I did not make them feel threatened by making them think I was going to stick like glue to them all night.

A lot of guys make their mistake by talking to a girl and if she answers, he tries to hog her time. I remarked I like to dance, but I did not ask her to dance at this time because I wanted to give her some time to think.

I saw Lisa and Joyce a couple more times that night and I was friendly to them each time, but I still did not hog their time. I figured I would run into them again.

I did run into them again, the following week, and this time Lisa was real friendly.

I finally danced with her and we had a very good time. I laughed and joked and treated her like a good friend.

She said she was very comfortable with me. I have not asked her out yet, but whenever I see her we have a good time dancing and a lot of guys envy me because I'm dancing with such a beautiful girl. You can do the same.

The same thing happened to me with another girl named Jackie. She turned me down three different times when I asked her to dance but I did not make the mistake a lot of guys make.

I did not put her down and I did not hold it against her because she did not dance with me.

We became friends. After a couple months of running into her at the same bar she asked me why I never asked her to dance. I told her she turned me down three times. She didn't remember but we did dance and I did take her out a few times.

The lesson here is to talk to as many women as you can as friends. Many of them will turn out to be more than friends, mark my words.

If you remember nothing else, just remember that women are human beings, not sex objects. Treat them as such, and you will have success beyond your wildest dreams.