The Check Note Technique

This method is a favorite of mine. I use it every chance I get. I love the five words because they immediately get a girl to wondering.

The first thing to do is pick the girls you want to meet. Here is what you do. You go into the bar and you sit down and survey the women in the bar.

After a little time, you pick the girl or girls you would like to meet. When you are certain about the girl you want to meet, you are ready to make your move.

Don't wait too long. If you're like me...

You walk up to the girl you want to meet and you say, "May I borrow a pencil?". Usually every girl has a pencil or a pen. If she does not, or if she ignores you then ask the bartender for a pencil.

If the bartender does not have a pen or pencil, always have one on you and walk up to some one and pretend you borrowed it.

Your only intention is to get a pen or pencil with her attention on it. Now go back to your table and don't pay the slightest attention to her. For the moment, she will be aware that you're in the room.

You write a short note to her. I assume you can use a small piece of notebook paper or even a napkin.

This should become a habit, how are you going to write down all the phone numbers of women you meet if you don't have some paper?

Write something like the following:

You give her the note and the pen or pencil and let her decide what to do. Why will this work? Because as I told you before, to meet a lot of women you must be unique and different and not common.

You must admit that this is not a common method. She will be flattered that you went to so much trouble just to try to meet her.

You gave her the chance of either inviting you to join her or tell you to go to hell.

This is a choice every woman must have. You have not pushed yourself on her and you have not put her in an awkward situation.

I predict that she will want to meet you because you are not common.

If this is different than anything you ever tried before, change your attitude and from this day forward, try all different approaches to meeting women.

Jim - I was willing to try anything when Wayne told me about his new discovery on meeting women in bars. I decided on the borrowing the pen method first.

I figured this was pretty easy, or so I thought. I went to the Ramada Inn one Friday night and sat at a table in the corner. I looked around and saw dozens of beautiful girls.

I just sat there sipping a drink for nearly an hour before I decided to try anything. I was really scared, but...

I saw a sexy looking girl sitting with her girlfriend. I walked up to her and asked to borrow a pen. She looked at me and said, Why?

What do I do now I wondered. I just muttered something about writing a note. She gave me the pen and I started back to my seat, looked back at her, and bumped into some guy at the bar. Boy, everything was going wrong.

I went back to my seat and wrote the note.

After I brought it back and gave it to her, I didn't know whether to wait for her answer or go back to my table. I waited and she gave me back the note.

I went back to my table and looked at it. She marked yes. She wanted to meet me. I went over and she invited me to sit down. We talked for a while and she told me that was the most unusual way a guy ever tried to meet her.

She couldn't pass up the chance to meet someone with that much ingenuity. We had a good time and I got her phone number before the night was over.

We made a date for the following night.